Flitted Sheets
May. 30th, 2012 07:51 amI do plan to do a bit more of a full con report from Confuzzled in the next few days (or possibly end up never getting round to it as is usual with cons), but thought I'd address one thing in brief first.
A few folks noted that I never seemed to stop around or talk to them for long at the con (and this was mentioned last EF too). To clarify, this is certainly nothing personal against anyone, but it's an unfortunate rooted thing that I get very uncomfortable if I don't spend a lot of time flitting, which is why you'll always find me doing it at cons and meets. I used to invest a lot of time in a small number of people instead, and ended up very badly burned by that when that used as a hammer against me later. As such, these days if I'm sat around a single group for long, I get a little paranoid of outstaying my welcome and prefer to keep moving. It's the same reason you'll tend to find I've never been part of any real cliques etc within furry circles, and tend to be very hesitant about pestering people on IM.
So yes, don't assume I'm trying to avoid you if I disappear quickly. =:P I probably love chatting away more than it may come accross, but it's more me just trying to shield myself in general.
A few folks noted that I never seemed to stop around or talk to them for long at the con (and this was mentioned last EF too). To clarify, this is certainly nothing personal against anyone, but it's an unfortunate rooted thing that I get very uncomfortable if I don't spend a lot of time flitting, which is why you'll always find me doing it at cons and meets. I used to invest a lot of time in a small number of people instead, and ended up very badly burned by that when that used as a hammer against me later. As such, these days if I'm sat around a single group for long, I get a little paranoid of outstaying my welcome and prefer to keep moving. It's the same reason you'll tend to find I've never been part of any real cliques etc within furry circles, and tend to be very hesitant about pestering people on IM.
So yes, don't assume I'm trying to avoid you if I disappear quickly. =:P I probably love chatting away more than it may come accross, but it's more me just trying to shield myself in general.